Troll the haters by seeing them clearly. • People try to use my sex life as an insult, telling male partners my freedom weakens their manhood. Telling me I’m less valuable because I̶m̶ ̶n̶o̶t̶ ̶c̶h̶a̶s̶t̶e̶ I disagree with the premise of shame. It’s so wild to see such explicit messages. You’re “ female so more valuable if working hard to be owned. “ You’re “ male so more valuable if you can own her. “ Well I say “ They’re — alone. so, maybe they don’t have the answers in sex or love or happiness. “ • Never apologize for freeing yourself from the burdens of Tradition.